My bf (m28) and I (f25) have been dating for 7 months. He’s been the biggest gentleman always king gentle caring and so sweet with me. Genuinely we get along so great like best friends. He truly dated me so well.
Last week he picked me up to go on a date. We’re super excited, horny, you know - honeymoon vibes n stuff - get super drunk and after dinner go to the bar. He starts complaining that the guy behind him is elbowing him. I tell him to let it go since we’re in front of his clients and to just calm down and let’s move away. He lost it. Raised his voice at me in public so I walked away. He chased me out the bar, punched something so his hand starts bleeding, I get in an uber to get away from him, and he proceeds to do multiple aggressive things and call me terrible names. He did not lay a hand on me thank god but he was very aggressive and put me in danger.
This is the first time he has ever done anything like this!! He became a completely different person. I was so scared and obviously went home without him. The next day he expressed deep regret and feels awful, etc and I told him I need 2 weeks to chill before we talk but I can’t ever trust him again. I need to end it.
I’m heartbroken but also how can someone change in an instant like that ???
